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Rachael Dartnell's avatar

It’s absolutely crazy. I’m many years into this now and I still can’t get my head around the delusions these organisations, police and governments have to buy into in order to come to the (frankly bizarre) conclusion that women who are against gender ideology are the ones who are a threat (are there any genuine recorded incidents of violence from ‘our’ side?) when there have been a multitude of incidents, as you pointed out, of trans rights activists and their supporters inciting violence and issuing death threats.

Back when I organised, at one of the fairly local, relatively small events, we had backlash from a tiny group of online TRAs who plotted to disrupt the event and encouraged violence. They ended up graffitiing the building and we had to have a police escort to the location (thankfully the building owners supported us). The local MP supported THEM and set up a drop-in session for the day of our event for TRAs to attend if they feel unsafe! 🤯And since that time I’ve only seen the threats to women escalate. What will it take for this to be treated seriously? I think we all know the answer to that - women could be killed and we still wouldn’t be taken seriously. It shows how this issue is fundamentally a women’s issue, and hence why the madness has gone on for so long - in society’s eyes, women don’t matter.

It’s so deeply disturbing to me that so many people are unable to critically think and assess what is going on here, even when the evidence is photographed and videoed for the world to see. Perhaps the hatred for women automatically leads many to take the opposing side to what mostly women are saying (including women who still prefer to throw other women under the bus than swallow the reality that they too are hated) - the default is to write us off as shrill, hysterical harpies.

On a regular basis I wake up and wonder if the world has gone mad. I don’t know a voice on this side of the fight who hasn’t lost friends and loved ones because of simply refusing to pretend reality doesn’t exist. People who I have otherwise considered smart, rational, logic-based people, have stood in front of me bemused and parroted ‘but trans women are women’ as a response to any sound reasoning showing otherwise, unable to see they are elevating men’s rights over women’s basic right to exist. I think it’s this, more than anything else, that leaves me cold - the idea that supposedly sane people are skipping down this rhetorical path and can’t see that it leads to hell. I believe it shows the utter infallibility of people and makes it so clear how a world can end up in war over the craziest of things.

Thank you for being such a bright light in this madness, Meghan. And please, please, stay safe. 🙏

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Erin Graham's avatar

Megan! Thank you for standing firm. I know how hard it is, how much we stand to lose-- by telling the truth and insisting on respect and freedom for women. I'm sorry and incandescent with rage that you and other women have endured these insane attacks. sending love your way.

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